How the game works

One room. One group.Three rounds.

Everyone begins together, and the evening changes gear gradually. That gives you time to meet the room before deciding how you want to play.

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Round one

Take your seat

Everyone arrives at the same time and the evening begins in the Lounge. Grab a drink. Meet the other players. Chat, flirt, settle in.

Nobody is expected to walk through the door already switched on. The first round is simply about getting comfortable with the men you're going to spend the evening with.

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Round two

Show your hand

Once everyone has arrived and the group has settled, we change gears. Phones are away. Clothes come off. The Lounge becomes a more relaxed, body-positive space where you can see — and be seen — without judgement.

Different ages. Different bodies. Different types. There isn't one kind of man who belongs at Players Lounge.

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Round three

Play when you're ready

When the mood takes you, the Lounge's dedicated playspaces are open to you. Join in. Take your time. Watch for a while. Keep chatting. Change your mind.

There is no compulsory participation and no expectation that you need to connect sexually with anyone. The only rule is that everybody gets to make their own choices.

No pressure. No judgement. No scorecard.

Who gets dealt in? — The Players